If somebody to love, without in turn awaking love, that is, if its love while love not to excite reciprocal love, if somebody through the vital manifestation while man whom he loves not transforms into loved person, is because its love is impotent and a misfortune. (MARX, 1970, p.235). /a>. The friendship between Lester and the Ricky young, take its authoritarian father to distrust that its son gets much money through a life homosexual prostitution. Baby clothes is often quoted as being for or against this. The supposed possibility to have a homosexual son who if relates with Lester takes the military man to ahead nourish a feeling of anger of the false revelation that it compels its son to make he accuses when it to get illicit money: ' ' where it got this money? I do not lie pra me I saw you with it! What it made you to make? I do not go to be motionless knowing that my son is one becomes wormy! ' ' When refusing itself to believe it its son, who the friendship between it and Lester does not involve no homosexual relation, starts to spank saying it it: ' ' I swear I banish that you from this house and I see never more you I prefer to see you dead of what one becomes wormy! ' '. This is the moment where the young sees the possibility of if seeing free of the yoke of its father and has lain: ' ' It swears it orders that me even so? It has reason! I charge 2000 dollars! I am optimum loving of this region father! ' ' This is the triunfal moment of the release of the Young that if fires to its mother and goes to the meeting of Jane for invites it to leave with it. At this moment the homossexualidade of to militate is extravasada in a spontaneous act and challenging when in full weather it goes to the meeting of Lester that in an act of fraternity and solidarity receives it and this, to the inquired being: ' ' where she is its woman? ' ' it answers it: ' ' it must be trepando for there with the prince of the property It wants to know of a thing? I do not bind! Our marriage is alone of faade, I is not imported with this! It is as an advertising, of as we are normal, but all little this! But you are tremendous, you need to take off this clothes! He says me what you need? ' ' The revelation of Lester and the manifestation of fraternity take the military man to a declaratory act. . Sheryl Sandberg describes an additional similar source.